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I’ve hit the online dating scene twice. The first time achieved a complete lack of success! I wrote a profile that I thought was interesting; I sent messages to more than 20 women; and the only reply I had was a single, canned response. “You’re too young for me!” I’ve been hitting it again lately, and I’ve had much more success with lots of women sending me messages, although this time I’m only doing it to review the organisations for Flirt-Coach.net.

The first time I tried online dating was about 6-12 months after a long-term relationship had ended. In my profile, I had expressed the fact that I had a good job as a software engineer; I was reasonably successful, with my own house and car; and my hobbies included clarinet playing and astronomy.

I was quite lacking in confidence at the time, although of course I didn’t indicate that in the profile. I was not an outgoing person. None of my hobbies had me getting out in the world, meeting people. There was probably an aura of desperation about my profile.

I’ve changed a lot since the first time I tried online dating. I have learned a martial art, various dancing styles, and flying; and I’ve tried quite a few other things, too. My confidence has risen a great deal when it comes to dealing with people! I’d say that I was an exciting person now, having tried all this stuff. Other people have also said that they’ve noticed this change in me.

If you’re plagued with the same problem that I had years ago, it could be that you need to become a more exciting person! Maybe you need to start living an interesting life. You could choose something that you’ve always wanted to do, but been a little bit scared to do it; or just pick something that would be interesting! I decided that I had enough money in savings to try something new, and I did a bit of research on the net to find out about flying. I thought that it would be fantastic if I could fly an aeroplane! I decided to go for it.

I think that people can read between the lines of your profile. Your profile is your advertisement; it’s what you need to generate interest in yourself. If it’s already good from a spelling and grammar point of view, you need to look at the content. If you can paint a picture of yourself as an exciting person, full of life, then that’s going to be much more attractive than a profile that says that you play the clarinet and point a pair of binoculars at the sky once in a while! Don’t put any lies in your profile, though; if you need to start living life to the full, there’s no time like the present!

Basically, I believe that I probably came across as desperate in that profile, and as having no life. If you can say that you have an active life, you lose that aura of desperation; you’re then doing online dating because you want to meet the right person, not because you want to meet any person. You may even find that, as with myself, you meet someone without needing to use the online dating agencies!