What’s the best way to ask somebody out on a date? Obviously you need to make an approach, and whereas that can be difficult if you are not confident, and especially if you have taken knocks before, one thing’s for sure: if you don’t do it, you will not go out on a date with that person; if you do do it, you may get to date them. Here is my most powerful tip that could really help you a great deal!
Of course, this is mainly aimed at men, but there is no reason that the exact same technique couldn’t work for you if you are a woman.
If you do have any confidence issues, imagine yourself being successful. Think of a time when you were successful, not necessarily at asking somebody out; it could be something like passing a driving test, for example. Then, imagine yourself as a larger-than-life character, walking up to the person you want to have a date with, asking them out. Imagine your “prospect” smiling, saying, “Yes, I’d love to go out on a date with you!” Take the feeling you had when you thought of the time you were successful, and in your imagination, step into that character as if you were putting them on like a suit! Turn up the volume; make the colours more vivid; and keep imagining yourself making successful approach after successful approach! You are the prize that lucky person has been waiting for; she/he might get to date you!
The secret behind this technique is that, if you can imagine that feeling of confidence, success and achievement several times while imagining successfully asking somebody out on a date, that’s the feeling you will get when you do ask them out. If they say yes, brilliant! You’ve achieved what you wanted to achieve. If they don’t, it doesn’t matter. You’re still feeling on top of the world, and you know that there are plenty more people who may be lucky enough to get a date with you.
The more times you try this technique, the more powerful it becomes. It would be ideal if you tried it every day for three weeks; that would almost certainly drive away any doubts.
Before you file this under interesting information, browse to our next article and forget all about this, try it. What have you got to lose? Either I’m telling you a load of rubbish, in which case you’ll be no worse off than you were a moment ago; or I’m telling you a great technique that will really help you out, and in that case, this may be the only thing you need to get out there and ask people for dates!
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