It is pretty cool when a guy walks into a room and it seems like everything suddenly revolves around them. This is the guy we call the alpha male. They command attention, they stand out and they have impeccable communication skills so you can be sure that every lady wants to hang around them! So how can you be this type of man? Here are a few tips to help you be a gentleman and an ultimate alpha male.
1. Be original.
Nobody likes a copycat. You might want to avoid the urge to copy another alpha male you may have seen. Have your own set of ideas, of course we are not talking extremely out of this world, but basically, be your own man. Be very decisive and stand by your beliefs because the minute you get swayed by every other person it shows that you are timid. For instance, a friend asks you whether you would like a drink, you must clearly state whether you want one or not. These simple and precise decisions give off a certain type of confidence that shows you are an alpha male.
2. Stand out.
The way you dress should clearly show that you are a confident man with an excellent sense of fashion. If we could summarise this into a sentence we would state the cliché statement ‘dress the way you want to be addressed’. An alpha male always looks dapper and when you spot them in a crowd, their mode of dressing portrays that they are not your ordinary kind of guy.
3. How do you carry yourself?
When you get into a room, do not wonder whether the people will like you. Instead, you should be the one wondering whether you like them. This is because you are confident in yourself. So your whole demeanor, from the way you walk, stand, talk and act should not be in a way that begs to be liked. One tactic used by alpha males is that they maintain eye contact and use the right gestures when talking.
4. Communication skills.
Be more of a person who listens than talks. An alpha male has the tendency to attract a bunch of women, not because they are necessarily good looking, but because they are excellent listeners. A person who gives off the vibe that they are not in a rush to speak and that they are willing to listen and understand first automatically becomes more attractive.
Being an alpha male is not crazy science that you need to sit and pore over books to get the right tricks. Its all about you, the way you dress, your confidence and the way you communicate with others. Be like a predator, know when to strike and when to hold back.So go out and bring out the alpha male in you!