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Knowing which perfume to buy for the woman in your life is something of an art form. Buying the cheapest will not tend to score you brownie points, yet buying the most expensive may well not suit your girlfriend and mark you out as a pushover.

Basically, you should not just grab the first bottle you see. You need to take time over selecting the right perfume which would have a fragrance that compliments your woman.

You should first know whether your woman actually uses and enjoys perfume, because there are those who don’t. Has she ever worn perfume for you? Does she have any perfume bottles already? If not, you may well be wasting your money, which may be better spent on something else.

However, most women do like to smell good. With that in mind, test each one you come across, and think about how it would smell on that person. Everyone’s body chemistry is different. A certain perfume may smell good at the fragrance counter, but won’t smell the same on someone else, and certainly won’t smell the same on test paper. So, whenever possible, try the perfume on the person you will be buying it for.

Fragrances come in virtually endless varieties, but are based around a few main types, such as citrus, floral, fruity, leather, woody or aquatic. If you happen know which type smells best on your mate, then selecting the right perfume will be easier. You can also tell the person at the perfume counter what your loved one’s favorite fragrance is, and ask for a recommendation that’s similar.

To make the perfume’s fragrance last, avoid storing it near heat and light. Stored properly, the scent can last for years. A few drops are all that’s needed, so locking in the perfume’s unique aroma will prevent it from smelling “off” a few months after purchase.

There you have it. A basic guide to buying the right fragrance for your mate. It’s not complicated, but at the same time, you want to get it right. On a side note, not only will she enjoy it, but you will too.

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How you hold your drink reveals your personality!

Maybe you’re a flirt, holding and manipulating your glass provocatively, dipping your finger into it?

Or are you a gossip, leaning over your glass to talk to friends, and keeping yourself closed off to new people?

Perhaps you’re a fun-lover, favouring bottled drinks and holding them by the bottle neck.

The wallflower style – using your glass as a barrier to avoid social contact at all costs?

The ice queen with a glass of wine or a short, always ready with a sharp rebuke to anybody who would dare advance?

The playboy, with the drink manipulated suggestively as a phallic prop?

The lad, maximising your space by keeping your glass far away, and leaning back?

Or maybe you’re the browbeater type, using your glass almost as a weapon?

This article, “Glass Hold Reveals Personality,” reveals all. How you hold your drink could be speaking volumes about your personality, and it could be saying things that you don’t want to say!

What’s the best way to ask somebody out on a date? Obviously you need to make an approach, and whereas that can be difficult if you are not confident, and especially if you have taken knocks before, one thing’s for sure: if you don’t do it, you will not go out on a date with that person; if you do do it, you may get to date them. Here is my most powerful tip that could really help you a great deal!

Of course, this is mainly aimed at men, but there is no reason that the exact same technique couldn’t work for you if you are a woman.

If you do have any confidence issues, imagine yourself being successful. Think of a time when you were successful, not necessarily at asking somebody out; it could be something like passing a driving test, for example. Then, imagine yourself as a larger-than-life character, walking up to the person you want to have a date with, asking them out. Imagine your “prospect” smiling, saying, “Yes, I’d love to go out on a date with you!” Take the feeling you had when you thought of the time you were successful, and in your imagination, step into that character as if you were putting them on like a suit! Turn up the volume; make the colours more vivid; and keep imagining yourself making successful approach after successful approach! You are the prize that lucky person has been waiting for; she/he might get to date you!

The secret behind this technique is that, if you can imagine that feeling of confidence, success and achievement several times while imagining successfully asking somebody out on a date, that’s the feeling you will get when you do ask them out. If they say yes, brilliant! You’ve achieved what you wanted to achieve. If they don’t, it doesn’t matter. You’re still feeling on top of the world, and you know that there are plenty more people who may be lucky enough to get a date with you.

The more times you try this technique, the more powerful it becomes. It would be ideal if you tried it every day for three weeks; that would almost certainly drive away any doubts.

Before you file this under interesting information, browse to our next article and forget all about this, try it. What have you got to lose? Either I’m telling you a load of rubbish, in which case you’ll be no worse off than you were a moment ago; or I’m telling you a great technique that will really help you out, and in that case, this may be the only thing you need to get out there and ask people for dates!